Alexis Schulman

My name is Alexis Schulman and I’m a born and raised Jersey shore girl. I grew up 5 minutes from the beach, so bare feet and a sand filled jeep were always the normal for me. Living in such a diverse place constantly awarded me the opportunity to explore almost any activity I was interested in. These ranged from simply lounging in the sun at the beach to rock climbing in northern New Jersey to eating my way through New York City. I always considered my life complete because I was blessed with a great family, the two best friends a girl could ever have and an amazing career as a forester. Then I met my now husband Jason. Our parents were best friends for years, but Jason and I never met. He moved to California the year before we met and I was busy going to college and traveling everywhere I could. When I came back from Europe in June of 2008, I finally met the man of my dreams on his birthday. After traveling to California to see him almost twice every month, he moved back to New Jersey that November to start a life with me. In March 2009, Jason and his little brother decided to join the Marine Corps and that May they were both off to boot camp. After graduation, we were engaged to be married, and because of the unpredictable nature of the military, we decided to get married during Christmas leave on December 27th. Our ceremony was tiny, consisting of our closest family and friends in Atlantic City, NJ. I couldn’t ask for a more gorgeous day. This August, I decided to leave Rutgers University when Jason was stationed here in Jacksonville. A week after we moved here, we found out that we were pregnant! Now here we are, transitioning into the 2nd trimester with our first sonogram on October 29th, due on Mother’s Day 2011 and loving every single decision we’ve made that landed us here. I look forward to sharing our fairytale and perhaps helping others and learning from them too.

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Our first day trip

The best part of my day - the fabric I found!

This week, we took our first day trip with Joshua.  And by we, I mean Nathan, Emily, and I took our first day trip with Joshua.  Chad was at work that day – lucky duck.  I had been ignoring the recall notice on our car for several months, but when my seatbelt started becoming difficult to unbuckle, the time had come to make the trip to the dealership in Wilmington.

I can’t say that I was excited about the trip.  Normally, the kids and I like going to Wilmington – well-stocked fabric shops, great parks, and lunch options beyond McDonald’s.  This trip, though, Joshua was joining us.  A nursing, two-month-old for a day trip with no other adult.  Yay.

So, we got up early and were on the road by 7:30.  The trip down was fine – Nathan and Emily are great in the car, and Joshua had a full tummy so he slept well.  We got to the dealership and settled into the playroom to hang out until the repair was completed.  A loaner car was available, but taking all three car seats out of our car, installing them in the loaner, and then repeating the process when we returned was more work than staying.

The dealership actually has a really nice little playroom, and Nathan and Emily had a great time playing the almost three hours we were there.  Joshua and I did not fare so well.  I am not a public nurser, and the toy room had glass for three of the four walls and salespeople and shoppers walking by regularly.  I’ll confess I probably cut both of Joshua’s feedings off before he was completely done because I wasn’t comfortable feeding him there.  The noise of Nathan and Emily playing, while at a normal, well-behaved level, was still more than Joshua was used to for naps, so he didn’t sleep well either.  I was relieved to leave.

Other than the fender bender outside the toy store, the rest of the day went fairly smoothly.  At the fabric shop, I found some fabric I had wanted, Nathan and Emily had a great time at the toy store, and everyone enjoyed their lunches.  This time, I just fed Joshua a bottle.  He didn’t care, and it was just so much simpler in a restaurant.

I was thrilled when everyone fell asleep about five minutes into the drive home.  While the day hadn’t been horrible, it had been quite stressful trying to keep all three of them quiet, well behaved, and entertained.  Throw in feeding Joshua, and it was a long day.  I now know we can successfully leave Jacksonville for a day trip on our own, but I’m just not sure I want to do it regularly with a nursing infant.

Have you ventured out much with your baby yet?  How did it go?

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